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By Dr. Steve Albrecht

In my earliest days watching library staff interact with patrons, I was always amazed at the power of those elderly female staffers, who I affectionately called the “Little Old Lady Librarians” or LOLs, for short. They just had an obvious knack for taking care of large and small behavioral issues with certain patrons. Why? If I had to guess, it was because even the most difficult, challenging, entitled, or rude patrons suddenly complied because the LOLs reminded them of their mom, grandma, auntie, or other older female relative who told them how to act, at home and out in public.

I had several encounters working as a library security consultant where staff would ask me to help them intervene with a particularly difficult patron, with mental health issues, who was angry, and under the influence of something. I asked this person to leave and he cursed me out. But when the LOL asked him to leave, he said, “Yes ma’am. Sorry to have been a problem” and he left. This happened more than once, with different patrons, and I was always pleased and amazed at their fortitude when dealing with patrons who wouldn’t comply for me or other staffers, but yet did, for them, every time.

Perhaps my usual demeanor was to blame for the challenging patrons’ replies back to me. I’m not a smiler by nature (bad teeth as a kid, all caps now) and my personality tends towards the direct command or abrupt request, especially when I’m stressed or tired. My approach with certain angry people has ranged from grudging compliance all the way to a challenge to fight. By contrast, the LOLs are always firm but pleasant, something their many years of life experience and skill in dealing with all kinds of people, in the many jobs they have held, certainly helps them. No civilized human beings want to put their hands on a LOL, no matter how many life problems they are carrying around. They see a compassionate person in front of them - who reminds them of someone older and kindly in their lives, either vaguely or quite directly, and because of this mostly positive influence - they go along with her requests.

The Little Old Lady Librarian could be described as a trope, a cliche, or a stereotype, but regardless of what we call her, her methods work with patrons who may not comply with other staffers or even when asked by library leaders. I have met LOLs who were part-timers, volunteers, longtime library workers, and even directors. They all shared the same tool: they have the “right touch” when it comes to getting recalcitrant patrons to go along or leave. They can align themselves with those patrons by being compassionate and assertive.

I speak of the concept of alignment often in my live training programs and recorded webinars. As a service and security tool, it suggests we get patrons to go along by being more like them. Maybe alignment is based on age, race, gender, or simply the style of dress matches the speaker and listener (or what body language experts call “mirroring”). There are many reasons why human beings align - or affiliate, as the social psychologists like to say - because most people want to be like others. The LOL asks them to stop doing something or leave and because of her non-threatening, non-authoritative demeanor, they can comply and save face in front of her, especially in public and in front of other strangers.

What skills can we learn from LOLs? They:

  • Have a firm but fair hand.
  • Provide equal treatment of all who follow or don’t follow our rules in the library.
  • Are skilled at empathic listening.
  • Offer a no-nonsense but also a kindly demeanor.
  • Display a non-aggressive posture, coupled with an assertive request for compliance.

I’ll put it this way: If you have ever worked with or for or around a LOL in your library, you probably have more than one story that proves my point, where she rode to the rescue and saved the situation. LOLs are a treasured part of the library staff. Learn from yours.

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  • Perhaps Dr Albrecht should go back and read his own post. 


    As was well-stated in that post, sweeping generalizations should have no place in library culture -- even when couched in "humor".

  • Yes this is a trope, but as short White woman who was a librarian in tha Bronx NYC and now works in South Central Los Angeles, I have used this 'superpower' to my advantage. People don't want to be seen beating up on respectful member of the community who doesn't come off as a threat. A large man who has a manhood to defend can't pull this off.

    Seeing oneself as a member of the community and being so is also is protective. I had another White woman ask me if I was 'afraid' to work where I was. My asnwer- "No, I live here". 

  • I am rapidly approaching LOL-hood, but my personality (and, sadly, my teeth) are a lot like yours! Some of those stereotypical LOLs may simply have gotten so burnt out that they no longer cared enough to get worked up by unpleasant patrons. I've certainly known some that dealt with it by having a nice strong Refreshing Adult Beverage or three after work.

    • So true! I know where and when to blow off steam! We all share war stories beind the scenes where I work.and have a good laugh over the cast of characters.

  • Your valid points here could have been better made without resorting to stereotypes.

    • I guess you missed the LOL part - I'm being tongue in cheek, Laugh Out Loud also stands for Little Old Lady Librarian.

      • I got the LOL part. 'Humor' doesn't cancel out the damage of stereotypes. 

        • I agree with Cindy, I guess that I am probably one of these so called "LOLs" at age 66 and having been in the field for a long time. The qualities that you suggest, firm but fair, empathy, etc are not just hallmarks reserved for those of us who have been around a while.  I think that any staff member, at any age can strive for this and many of my younger colleagues set a good example of this.  I find your humor indeed a stereotype,and kind of implying that we are old, feeble, etc.  While I do have some patrons say wow, you have been here a long time, these are also the same ones that come to me when they need assistance and know that I will do my best to help them.  Any staff members worth their salt, regardless of age, ability, etc will know the techniques that can help diffuse difficult situations.  Stop with the generalizations, you are not funny.

          • Hi, Catherine. Thanks for commenting. I think the points you make were exactly what Dr. Albrecht was trying to make, and showing that these traits that we *might* associate with the "LOL" are good for--and can be adopted by--all. I believe the use of the stereotype was in order to help us visualize those traits in a humorous, but perhaps sometimes accurate, way. I'm sorry you felt it was offensive. If anything, I felt he was complimenting those LOL librarians.

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Dr. Steve Albrecht

Since 2000, Dr. Steve Albrecht has trained thousands of library employees in 28+ states, live and online, in service, safety, and security. His programs are fast, entertaining, and provide tools that can be put to use immediately in the library workspace with all types of patrons.

In 2015, the ALA published his book, Library Security: Better Communication, Safer Facilities. His new book, The Safe Library: Keeping Users, Staff, and Collections Secure, was just published by Rowman & Littlefield.

Steve holds a doctoral degree in Business Administration (D.B.A.), an M.A. in Security Management, a B.A. in English, and a B.S. in Psychology. He is board-certified in HR, security management, employee coaching, and threat assessment.

He has written 25 books on business, security, and leadership topics. He lives in Springfield, Missouri, with six dogs and two cats.

More on The Safe Library at thesafelibrary.com. Follow on X (Twitter) at @thesafelibrary and on YouTube @thesafelibrary. Dr. Albrecht's professional website is drstevealbrecht.com.

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Watch Dr. Steve Albrecht on video and onstage, as he presents his safety and security workshop, "Dealing With Challenging Patrons" to a live library audience. 45 minutes for unlimited staff showings at a one-time $495 fee or included in any all-access pass program.